Everyone is different. We are all shaped by past experiences, future desires, different attitudes and behaviours. It’s what makes you unique and defines your personality. No matter what, you are remarkable.
As a young person, the pressures of modern life are immense – the academic system, social anxieties, imbalances at home and career stress. Society is hyperactive and it’s difficult to see clearly.
Picture looking at yourself through a frosted window – it’s ill-defined, vague, distant. Is the real you fighting to break though the fog, to gain clarity and see the beauty in life – your life?
If you need to talk get in touch now. Don’t let the darkness take over, you’re worth so much more.
Different personalities attract different friendships. Never adapt to fit in because you will attract friends that you deserve naturally.
Identify and love who you really are. Peel off the layers of confusion and hurt to reveal the real you.
Negative thoughts infect your identity and create chemical imbalances in your body. Use your energy to be optimistic.
Being positive boosts your immune system. Happy thoughts and attitudes breed confidence and enhance resilience.
Love yourself before you love other people. The craving to feel loved is often because you don’t love yourself enough.
Feeling buried under the weight of other people’s expectations creates confusion and leaves you ill at ease. Release the burdens created by others to feel free.
Feeling fulfilled comes from planting positivity seeds that grow into confidence, happiness, self-worth, value and vision. Start small.
Family nurtures a stable, supportive, encouraging and loving environment. Maybe not blood ties but you need a caring family.
A young mind can manifest feelings of dislike, a lack of self-worth and confidence. In extreme circumstances the purpose of living can be questioned, severe phobias develop and the risk of deep depression grows.
Self-harm and poor behaviours often set in as coping mechanisms to meet ambiguous needs, while suicidal feelings can be prominent as a means of escape from a reality that you feel you cannot deal with.
Seek help to break free and write a new future. You are not limited by what may have happened in the past and you do not have to live by labels. Nobody else deserves to have a hold over your life, find your inner strength and learn to love yourself.
Get in touch and grab hold of a helping hand.
We are not a counselling or cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) organisation. We support young people who suffer from anxiety, low self-esteem and a lack of confidence and are highly experienced in working with people who experience profound levels of poor mental health and suicidal tendencies through no fault of their own.
If you are committed to helping yourself then we will never walk away until your state of mind is strong, confident and happy.
Fun, practical and confidential sessions highlight the importance of loving yourself and being at peace in your own skin – 95% of the youngsters we work with are revitalised and content within just 3 to 9* sessions.
Retrain your brain to think positively and love yourself. You are a winner – talk to us.
Clause: *3-12 sessions can be required depending on the cause of trauma and the resilience of the individuals we work with
Your grades at school or college are a result of both how you learn and how hard you learn. You can improve your grades by learning in ways that suit your profile. However, your profile doesn’t dictate how committed or lazy you are. You will find if you commit yourself, and learn in the way that suits you, it won’t feel like hard work, especially if you ask for help in your areas of weakness.
At school, there will still subjects you need to take as part of your curriculum. Later in life, your success will come from what you say ‘no’ to – the jobs you avoid and the activities you let others do so you’re free to do what you are best at. If you can’t use your profile as a reason to avoid the subjects or parts of a job that don’t suit you, you can still use it to improve your enjoyment of these subjects, and to understand the relative importance of these subjects or parts of the job.
Every football player in a match takes ownership of their position, but all take responsibility for winning the game. When you know what you aren’t so good at, you can still take responsibility for those areas by having others help you or putting a system in place to minimise your struggles or challenges.
I've watched first hand as this incredible woman TeeJay has empowered countless young people with some of the most challenging and heart breaking stories to throw away the life story that was written for them by others or by circumstance, and choose the life they want to live for themselves.
If felt so good to recommend not just the program, but also the person behind it because of TeeJay's integrity, skill, and her pass ion for helping young people be their absolute best. If you know of a young person that has gifts in some areas, but feels "left out" for not being awesome at everything, it may just be a matter of them discovering their own natural strength s, how to enhance those strengths, identifying areas of non-strength and how to handle those in a way that empowers them.
Cannot thank Teejay enough for the help she has given to my 3 year old grandchild following the loss of his beloved grandad. He was really struggling to cope with seeing people he was close to and broke his heart when they then had to leave his house. In just one half-day session Tejay was able to help him understand that when people say goodbye it does not mean that he will never see them again. He is now back to the happy child he previously was and knows that we will be there in his life even though we are not always with him. Cannot recommend Teejay enough. Many thanks Teejay in turning a little boy's life around in such a compassionate and professional way.
Since doing Ignition, my confidence has (pun intended) skyrocketed! I was able to go on NCS over the summer and had the best time of my life - it was so good that I applied for the Regional Youth Board, an opportunity for NCS graduates, and with 13 other grads from across Merseyside and Cheshire, I got accepted!
Teejay delivers the program with great energy, enthusiasm, fun, and truly "gets" what young people need to blossom into the best version of themselves! I will easily use Ignition! in my coaching practice as well as in schools and local youth programs. Thank you!
At Inner Flame, we work with many young people who didn't thrive in formal education and consequently have developed a low sense of self-worth.Talent Dynamics gives them a great opportunity to recognise their individual strengths and interests, and often an understanding as to why they didn't enjoy school. The profile itself, though, is far less valuable than the coaching opportunity which offers the opportunity to really explore who the young person is and what they can offer the world. These conversations can be magical.